Tips to Keeping your Man...

From the likes of African woman writer  Kizito Katawonga, ladies..take note....
Ps: i do not own or write anything in the love and relationship panel..all are forwards from friends or other writers.

So, you want to know how to keep that hunk of a catch from straying with your best friend or the  house girl? Then keep these five things top of mind and he won’t be going anywhere anytime soon.

1. Always remember who really wears the pants.

Chauvinistic, maybe,  but there can really only be one man in a relationship and it isn’t you. It’s about respect. Men need  it like a fish needs water. Assuming your man isn’t a testosterone driven boy, he will  respond to your genuine respect by becoming everything you ever desired.

Treat him like a king, praise him like he’s a superhero and he will move the world for you.

2. Neediness is unattractive.

A self-confident and assured woman is so hot. Don’t hinge your identity on us. Yes need us, but don’t be needy and  insecure, always doubting yourself and your worth. Be comfortable in your skin, don’t try to be anyone else, chase your own dreams and invite us to help you achieve them. The ego boost knowing we helped you become something greater will keep us heavily invested. After all,  the glory of a man is his woman.

3. Sex is not a kiboko (stick).

Ladies, it’s not ok to go for weeks without sex and its borderline foolishness to use sex as tool to discipline your man. He can and will find it somewhere else. A man needs regular sex; it’s our biological makeup. That’s why we think about sex so much. Frequent hot, passionate sex will keep your man happily domesticated. When you desire him, ravage him, need him, he’ll feel  like a king. You make a man  feel like that, you get to keep him for good. Period.

4. He is not your girlfriend.

Men don’t like chick flicks, doing our nails, shopping for hours or talking about our feelings! Neanderthal? Perhaps but the more you keep pushing your man be more feminine, the more he’ll look for someone that makes him feel manly. Do the mushy stuff with your girls and let him be your manly mate. He’ll love you all the more for it.

5. Sorry, but looks really do matter.

If you grew 4 dress sizes up from when you first fell in love, don’t be surprised if your man is scoping out your skinny friends. Men are visual creatures and we love for our women to always look hot for us. You don’t have to look like a Victoria’s Secret model; just the most beautiful version of you. So put on that sexy lacy lingerie, hit the gym, do the Pilates, heck ask us to go jogging with you. We’ll feel so proud and loved because you’re doing it just for us and we’ll be yours.

Now, men aren’t all  the same but with these guidelines, you should be able to keep your man on a blissful leash of attraction that won’t easily break and he will do nearly anything for you. Hell, just ask my wife!